If it feels like a rollercoaster, it’s probably not love it’s nervous system dysregulation. That rush? It’s cortisol and dopamine colliding, not destiny. High-drama love hijacks your survival wiring. Your body mistakes anxiety for attraction. Studies in attachment psychology show unpredictability increases obsession not compatibility. Here’s the uncomfortable truth: chaos feels like home if you were raised in it. Safety feels foreign. Even boring. We don’t chase what nurtures us. We chase what activates us. Intensity is not depth. It’s stimulation. And once you realize your type might just be your trauma. You can’t unread that.
