No two people or relationships are the same, and those differences can manifest themselves in all sorts of ways.
This Redditor’s views on commitment also weren’t exactly the same as those of her partner; the woman made it clear that she wanted marriage early in the relationship, but it took 25 years and four children for him to propose.
However, she shared with the AITAH community that when he finally did, she felt apathetic and wondered if she was being a jerk to her partner.