Relationships are often a balance between love and practical decisions, and sometimes the lines between romance and responsibility can become complicated. In fact, for couples thinking about marriage, family, or shared investments, financial decisions, especially large ones, can bring underlying tensions to the surface.
Today’s Original Poster (OP) was looking forward to renovating the home she shared with her boyfriend. However, she began to feel uneasy about going ahead with it especially without them being engaged. So when she brought it up, her boyfriend’s response left her feeling as though she ruined the relationship.
More info: Reddit