Gary Lineker has lifted the lid on the damage parents are unknowingly causing their children by shouting competitively at their child from the sidelines of the sports field.
Each family has its own parenting style, and while Kate Middleton's parenting style is often the go-to, when family disagree with your own parenting style experts have given their best tips.
But now football pundit and former professional England footballer Gary Lineker has given his advice for parents. As a dad of four to sons George, 31, Harry, 29, Tobias, 27, and Angus, 25, he has watched them play football throughout their childhood and he has a tough message to share.
Speaking on The Life Lessons Podcast about competitive parents, Gary explained, "Just let them play. I'm standing on the sidelines and I'm listening to parents shouting and bawling 'get rid of it' 'don't mess about with it there' and 99.9% of what they say is wrong. 99.9% of what they say is damaging their children. It's instilling fear into them.
"Just shut up. Shut up and let them play."
Gary went on to recall the time he experienced a parent act competitively during a football match.
"I remember one distinct thing where a parent walked onto the pitch and picked his child up by the scruff of the neck he said, 'If you play like that you're never gonna make the grade' and I thought mate, I've just watched him play. He ain't gonna make the grade anyway so just chill. Let him enjoy his football," he said.
"The truth is they'll reach the level that they'll reach anyway."
And Gary admitted they're "much less likely" to reach that level because of the pressure.
"Even if they had an inkling of a possibility of making it, they are decreasing those chances," he added.
His advice comes after Lioness goalkeeper Mary Earps almost quit football before being selected to play for England's women's team.
And fans support what he's saying. One fan wrote, "I do agree with Gary, I always ask my grandson did he enjoy playing, yes he said every time, just encourage them and tell them they are amazing."
Another fan agreed and added, "I think the problem is too many parents, shouting too much rubbish, and too many kids who clearly haven’t got the natural talent or will highly likely not be professional footballers..."
But they argued that "there are kids with talent and parents wanting to push and get that extra bit out of their kids"
They explained, "Call it encouragement; or willing them on… great, nothing wrong with that either really is there. He isn’t saying that. This is aimed at the parents who know nothing about football shouting at their kids who are clearly not that talented and it makes it worse. It’s pointless. Fair point Gary."
It's not the first time he's faced criticism about a topic either, fans previously wondered what did Gary Lineker say? when one of his tweets criticised the government's policy on immigration.
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