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Chicago Sun-Times
Chicago Sun-Times
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Abigail Van Buren

Dear Abby: Men I date don’t get that I want relationship, not just a hookup

Dear Abby United States

DEAR ABBY: I’m a 32-year-old woman. My 20s were spent in a serious long-term relationship. It was a lot of firsts for me. After we split, I took a couple of years to sow my wild oats and find out who I am as an individual.

I’m now looking for something more than “friends with benefits.” However, the last few men I’ve met and gone on dates with, as wholesome as they seemed on dating sites (which have been my main source of meeting men), were really just looking for hookups. I want to find a life partner.

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