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The Guardian - AU
The Guardian - AU
Lifestyle
Catie McLeod and Alyx Gorman

Dating apps face a reckoning as users log off: ‘There’s no actual human connection’

Image of a smart phone with a heart shape on it broken in two
One single person who spoke to Guardian Australia likened online dating to a sugar rush, and said the occasional first date didn’t weigh up against the ‘emotional cost’. Photograph: Malte Mueller/Getty Images/fStop

Sad, dizzyingly over-scheduled and suffering a serious case of “thumb fatigue”, midway through last year, Anne* decided to delete her dating apps.

For the previous four months, the 31-year-old Sydney resident had been attempting to achieve two big adult milestones at once: finding love and finding a place to buy. Every Saturday, it felt as though she was being priced out of another suburb, and at auctions she was mainly surrounded by couples. Then she would come home, open Hinge and experience a crushing sense of rejection “on such a personal level”.

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