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Ariane Sohrabi-Shiraz

Celebrity relationships expert shares the one mistake people make on dating profiles

If you're looking to get into a relationship, dating apps are often the way to go when it comes to modern life.

The words Tinder, Hinge and Bumble have become part of our everyday vocabulary.

Although there are plenty of success stories, many struggle to find love online because it comes with its own set of challenges.

The Mirror spoke exclusively to dating expert and life coach Anna Williamson, to find out what the biggest mistake people make on dating apps that could be hindering them.

Anna, who has her own online coaching platform called The Relationship Place, is currently appearing on E4's Celebs Go Dating.

Anna Williamson is currently appearing as a relationships coach on Celebs Go Dating (E4)

Speaking to The Mirror, she revealed that one of the main things people get wrong is the profile photo.

Anna said: "It's really important that you put a profile photo that is a really honest reflection of who you are."

Mentioning things you shouldn't be having in your photos, Anna said: "Don't have sunglasses on, don't be half-naked standing by a swimming pool, and don't be standing in a group of your mates."

So what is the perfect photo that could help you bag a date?

Dating profiles are a really popular way of meeting new people (Photothek via Getty Images)

Anna suggested: "I would say a nice, decent photo in natural sunlight. A normal, natural representation of what you look like.

"Maybe what you would look like on a Friday night or a Saturday afternoon.

"A nice photo where you're looking at the camera. Preferably smiling. A smile says so much about somebody.

"We've all seen those non-smiling photos. You might be the nicest person in the world and it looks like a mugshot."

Anna recommends to be "natural", and even though you want it to be a nice photo, don't "try too hard".

She continued: "One of the main bugbears I have and the main mistakes I see is trophy photos and standing next to a sports car, or if you're a woman, you’re at a beach club in the summer with a cocktail.

"These photos a two a penny, so do something differently and authentically."

When it comes to how to write the perfect dating profile, Anna says it's always best to keep it "concise and factually correct".

She continued: "Don't waffle, and don't inflate your credentials and attributes."

"Don't say you're 6ft 2in if you're 5ft 10in. Just be honest. You would want to read someone's bio that was truthful.

"Because then you can completely trust in what you're reading and what you're looking at. If you met that person and find out they weren't being truthful, or had massaged the truth in their bio you would feel a bit cheated, and you're starting that date off on the wrong foot.

"Treat your bio in a way you would except and hope others treat theirs – which is authentically, genuine, truthful and showcasing the best qualities."

You should never write anything negative, bad mouth you're ex or say you're looking to get over your previous relationship, says Anna.

Your focus should be on positivity – what you're into and what you're looking for.

Anna also says you should avoid all the clichés such as 'I like my friends' or 'I like socialising'.

The dating expert added: "Try to think of the most interesting thing about yourself and put that into your bio."

What turns you off when it comes to dating profiles? Let us know in the comments below.

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