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Maurie Backman

Can We Borrow From Our Elderly Father Without Telling Him?

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Wealth Wise is Kiplinger's advice column on navigating retirement-related dilemmas. Questions from real people, for real people. Got a question? See below for how to send it to us.

DEAR WEALTH WISE: We are both 61, still working, and earn $400k a year. We've accumulated substantial unsecured debt and want to pay it off using an equity loan from our primary home. However, because of our debt-to-income ratio, we can't get approved for an equity loan from our credit union. We have a second home (the reason for our high debt ratio), which we bought with our single daughter and that serves as her primary home. My husband holds the power of attorney and manages his 90-year-old father’s finances and assisted living expenses.

Should we use money from his father’s account to pay the unsecured loans — improve our DTI — and then get an equity loan to pay back what we took from his father’s account? — Up to Our Ears

Dear "Up to Our Ears": It's not a given that earning a high salary makes debt easy to manage. Even with a generous income, you may find yourself overwhelmed with monthly debt payments.

Here, we have a 61-year-old couple earning $400,000 who needs help managing their debt. A home equity loan is commonly a great consolidation tool for unsecured debts because it can offer a considerably lower interest rate.

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