If you saw me and my girlfriend walking down the street you’d think to yourself: ‘I can see who wears the trousers in that relationship!’.
And if you were a forward thinking, sensible person with eyes, you’d then think: ‘it’s both of them!’, because the chances are, that’s what we’re both wearing. However, in the last five years I’ve been in relationships with a woman, followed by a man, followed by a woman, and I know from experience (and uninvited commentary) that there are still a lot of people who when they see two women together think: ‘one of you must be the boss in this relationship. One of you must be the man’.
