A man who sent a "sex tape" of himself and his ex-fiancée to the woman's current husband did so to humiliate her after he harboured "great bitterness", a court has found.
"You wanted to degrade me to my husband," the woman said in a victim impact statement she read to the ACT Magistrates Court on Friday.
"Insinuating discretely through your words, that I was nothing but a piece of meat at the time of our relationship."