Hands-free isn’t just for your phone. Tech has come a long way, and there are lots of vibrators out there that can be remotely or app-controlled. Remote-controlled sex toys used to have pretty poor range, but these days, you can be on the other side of the world while enjoying a bedroom buzz with your partner.
“When it comes to remote-controlled vibes, lots of people think of partnered play, which is definitely a great way to use them,” says Laura Clarke, a sex educator and author. “You could try giving your partner the remote and then depriving yourself of your other senses – wear an eye mask and play some music through headphones. This will make your other senses more alert, and the anticipation and suspense of exactly when your partner will turn on the vibe might add to your sensitivity.”
