On the latest season of The Bachelor, contestant Madina Alam gained attention for her ability to maintain her composure amidst all the drama. In a recent TikTok video, the 31-year-old opened up about her choice to remain silent in the face of conflicts involving her, Sydney Gordon, and Maria Georgas.
Madina explained that she believes sometimes the best response is no response. As someone who isn't a 'huge arguer,' she understands that it's difficult to change someone's viewpoint and that it's more important to focus on controlling one's response to a situation.
While Madina admitted feeling stressed during her time on Joey Graziadei's season of The Bachelor, she expressed pride in her ability to keep herself composed. The drama surrounding her began when she shared her insecurities about being the oldest woman in the house. Maria, upon hearing this, commented on Madina's age to another contestant, leading to Sydney overhearing the conversation and feeling the need to defend Madina.
Sydney later discussed the situation with Joey, claiming that Maria had verbally attacked her. This resulted in a two-on-one date with both Maria and Sydney, where Sydney was ultimately sent home. Madina, unfortunately, was eliminated during a rose ceremony shortly after.
Reflecting on her experience, Madina expressed her emotions in another TikTok video, stating that the process was more emotional than she had anticipated. Being 'dumped on national TV' was difficult for her, especially since she felt she didn't have the opportunity to fully share her story or get to know Joey on a deeper level.
Now that she's no longer on the show, Madina opened up about the pressures she feels as a 31-year-old woman re-entering the dating scene. Participating in The Bachelor meant giving up the possibility of finding a potential partner for an extended period. While she is excited about the prospect, she also admits to feeling nervous.
For those following The Bachelor, Madina's journey has been eventful and filled with twists and turns. Despite not finding love on the show, she has shown immense strength and maturity in navigating difficult situations. As the season continues, viewers eagerly await what unfolds next for the remaining contestants.
The Bachelor airs every Monday at 8 p.m. EST on ABC.
