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The Guardian - AU
The Guardian - AU
Science
Robyn Read

As I slide into my ninth decade there are many things I regret, and some days the list is endless

‘Etched in the aged faces and bodies of my friends are lifetimes of experience and wisdom, and when they smile and laugh, the cliche comes alive – I see the carefree young people they were.’
‘Etched in the aged faces and bodies of my friends are lifetimes of experience and wisdom, and when they smile and laugh, the cliche comes alive – I see the carefree young people they were,’ writes Robyn Read. Photograph: Dawn Evans/Alamy

A young male writer turned 60 recently and complained about getting old. Please, I thought, I’ve unwound nine-tenths of my mortal coil, don’t tell me about getting old, young whippersnapper.

One glaring difference in the two decades that stand between us is underlined by the fact a 60-year-old male probably hasn’t experienced ageism yet. A fit man at that age is not far off his social and cultural peak; dress him in a suit and he could be a minister of the crown or a hot-shot CEO. A woman – and in most cases, a man nearing his 80s – is more than likely just the furniture of the street; only her peer group really sees her as an equal.

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