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Oluwaseun Damilola Sanwoolu, Ph.D. Candidate in Philosophy, University of Kansas

AI companions can give constant support – but distort ideas about what a relationship really is

Human love is valuable precisely because it's limited – we can't be everything to everyone all the time. Maria Korneeva/Moment via Getty Images

When the movie “Her” debuted in 2013, its plot felt like science fiction. The protagonist, Theodore, is a jaded man with no vigor for life. He comes alive after talking daily with his artificial intelligence chatbot, Samantha, with whom he eventually falls in love.

But today people actually report being in relationships with AI companions. According to a 2025 survey by the Center for Democracy and Technology, about 1 in 5 high school students say they or someone they know has had a romantic relationship with an AI.

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