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The Guardian - UK
The Guardian - UK
Lifestyle
Paula Cocozza

A new start after 60: I’d spent my life being ashamed of my hair – now I see it as a forcefield

Tina Shingler poses for a portrait
Tina Shingler: ‘I didn’t like the look of myself.’ Photograph: Anselm Ebulue/The Guardian

Growing up, Tina Shingler didn’t touch her hair like other girls touched theirs. She didn’t preen, stroke or comb – though sometimes she hid pens and cigarettes in it. “I had no respect for it, because no one else had any,” she says.

As a “Barnardo’s child”, Shingler’s hair presented a challenge to her white foster parents, Mary, a housewife, and Jack, a semi-skilled mechanic. She had a happy enough childhood, but every few months was required to kneel in the sitting room in Ripon, North Yorkshire, and rest her head in Mary’s lap to be “shorn”. The language was always animalistic, Shingler says. It was “to bow your head”, and know your hair was “something to be got rid of”.

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