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The Guardian - UK
The Guardian - UK
Lifestyle
Paula Cocozza

A new start after 60: ‘Alone for the first time in my life, I learned how to be happy’

Marian Elliott with her rescue lurcher/collie cross Ruby
Marian Elliott with her rescue lurcher/collie cross Ruby. Photograph: Sarah Lee/The Guardian

Marian Elliott was 22 when she left the family home to be with her husband-to-be. So when he left her nearly 40 years later – shortly after her 60th birthday – she found herself living entirely alone for the first time.

Elliott had thought she could picture the next stage in her life. She and her ex had worked hard to pay off their mortgage. “We were about to enjoy our retirement together,” she says with a heavy sigh. Now there was nothing but uncertainty. “I felt such pain, I didn’t know what to do with it,” she says.

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