The relationship with a mother-in-law is one of the most delicate and emotionally charged dynamics in a family. When it’s good, it’s a beautiful source of support and love. But when it’s bad, it can be a constant source of stress, anxiety, and marital conflict. Sometimes, the dislike is obvious and overt. More often, however, it’s a subtle and insidious campaign of passive-aggression that leaves you constantly questioning, “Is it just me, or does she really not like me?” This uncertainty can be maddening. Trust your gut. If you’re feeling a consistent chill, it’s likely not your imagination. There are a number of common signs your mother-in-law can’t stand you.
Here are nine of those red flags to watch out for.
