
Few things spike a parent’s anxiety quite like seeing the school’s number pop up on your phone again. And when the principal keeps calling you, it’s tempting to assume your child is just having a tough time or the school is being overly dramatic. But sometimes, it’s worth pausing to ask: is there anything I might be doing—or not doing—that’s adding fuel to the fire? From overlooked routines at home to parenting habits that show up in the classroom, your influence may go further than you realize. Here are nine reasons the principal keeps calling you, and how you might be playing a bigger role than you think.