What if the best relationship is not the one where two people constantly say, “Do this for me”, but the one where both naturally want to do it? You should not have to repeatedly beg for basic care, attention or respect. At the same time, your partner should not have to keep asking you for understanding, honesty or kindness. This does not mean a relationship will always be perfect. Every couple has difficult days. The real difference is that healthy love creates a natural desire to care for each other. When both people give without keeping score, love starts feeling safe instead of tiring.
