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The Guardian - UK
The Guardian - UK
Lifestyle
Leah Harper

50 first dates in 2023: one woman’s wild romantic odyssey – and what it reveals about love

‘People say “this exact date happened to me”’ … Hannah Zaslawski.
‘People say “this exact date happened to me”’ … Hannah Zaslawski. Photograph: David Levene/The Guardian

‘I always ask really weird questions on dates,” says Hannah Zaslawski. “One of my favourites is: ‘If you were a kitchen utensil, what would you be? I mean, what would you be?’” I panic – spoon? – but Zaslawski’s a pro. “OK, what kind of spoon?” she probes. Soon we’re laughing about wooden spoons (wholesome; rustic) and it’s easy to see how her mission to go on 50 first dates – a daunting prospect for most – would appeal to the peppy Australian.

Zaslawski moved from Sydney to London eight months ago and started documenting her dates on TikTok as a way to keep friends back home in the loop about her love life. The 30-year-old works in a cafe and as an actor but, with 53k followers now invested in her “dating journey”, she says making the series has become like a part-time job in itself. When we meet, she’s about to go on date number 17.

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