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Punteha van Terheyden

3 Easy Ways I Stopped My Living Room Looking Like A Mess on Christmas Day – Get Ahead of the Chaos and Reclaim Calm in Minutes

A festive living room with a large lit Christmas tree to the right. In the foreground is a large square ottoman on top of a cream rug with matching cream upholstered chairs with wooden legs. To the right is a white mantelpiece with a floral garland. A room is seen beyond with a matching cream carpet and dark wood furniture, and two windows with white patterned curtains.

The excitement of Christmas morning only grows when there are children in the house, and with them comes a truckload of mess and clutter.

That’s why, after nine festive Christmas mornings with our daughter, my husband and I have developed a three-step process that not only banishes that explosion of mess, but means once the presents are opened, all the clutter has already been dealt with, leaving your living room free from that chaotic sensation.

Whether you have children or not, this organizing tip takes just minutes and is useful for any busy household on Christmas day. Better yet, it won’t get in the way of all that Christmas morning fun.

3 Ways to Stop Christmas Morning Clutter Chaos in Your Living Room

1. Put Wrapping Paper In a Trash Bag As You Go

As soon as a present is unwrapped, put it straight in a designated bag for recycling. (Image credit: Future / SIMON BEVAN LTD)

This isn’t genius by any means, but it’s easy to forget to do in all the excitement. After years spent on our hands and knees finding all the scraps of wrapping paper when everything had been ripped open in a flurry of excitement on Christmas morning, we reverse-engineered the fix.

Now, I keep a strong trash bag, available at Amazon, open and by my side, ready to receive scraps as we go. I remind our daughter to pop all her rubbish inside, too and make it more fun by telling her to scrunch it up into a ball and 'shoot' it into our 'net' (the trash bag). You'll be surprised how easily it energizes the group to get that rubbish in the bag!

We also make sure to grab any plastic boxes (hence the strong bags) and wrapping from gifts that can be recycled and put those in the bag too, then the whole lot gets tipped out to the recycling bin at the end of our gift opening session. It's always good to have an idea of what can't be recycled, so the whole batch doesn't get contaminated, but it might include paper with glitter on, for example.

What I love about this tip as a person who finds visual clutter stressful, is that the mess doesn’t build up as Christmas morning progresses, and I don’t get overstimulated or tapped out by the chaos.

As a person in chronic pain and with nervous system dysregulation, this is vital to my enjoyment of special but busy and potentially messy days like Christmas. If you are neurodivergent, you may experience the same, and this is a smart way of easily decluttering with health challenges with minimal effort or energy spent.

Professional organizer and KonMari® Master Consultant, Rebecca Jo-Rushdy of Spark Joy & Flow adds, ‘Trash bags are absolutely essential – and I love getting kids involved by turning it into a little game as presents are opened (wrapping and boxes straight into the bag). It keeps momentum going and prevents that slow build-up of visual overwhelm.’

It also means we don’t have to stop our gift-enjoying or festive eating schedule to reset our living space before guests arrive, because we’re actually doing the time-consuming tidying up as we go.

2. Allocate a Sturdy Bag to Each Family Member

Allocate a sturdy shopping bag to each family member so once they have marvelled and their new gift, they can pop it inside their bag ready to take home, or to their room later. (Image credit: Future / Time Inc (UK) Ltd)

It’s a simple tweak and negates the need for a big tidy later on. Instead of piling all the presents around yourselves like a gift fortress, each person in your family should have an allocated large and sturdy shopping bag. I have lots of reusable shopping totes from Amazon at home to reduce my plastic, which are perfect for the job.

Once each person has opened a gift and finished marvelling at what good taste you all have, they can pop it straight into their designated bag.

Professional organizer Rebecca explains, ‘Allocate one per family member so that each person’s gifts have a home straight away. It makes it much easier to transport everything to bedrooms later without the inevitable armful-of-gifts-dropping-everywhere scenario.’

This is also helpful for guests who are with you for Christmas, but perhaps leaving soon.

I appreciate this tip a lot, as my daughter usually receives a mountain of gifts she refuses to put away for a while. Having a tidy bag we can tuck behind the sofa or place in a cabinet out of sight makes it easy to reset the living room for our afternoon lunch guests, whilst still keeping her array of goodies on hand for enjoyment.

Excluding children from age-appropriate tasks is something people with tidy homes never do, as it’s a great way to build sensible and useful organizing habits and skills that will serve them for life, first in your family home and later, their own.

3. Ditch Perfection

Perfection is overrated. Live your life and enjoy the day. Nobody is going to judge you for an item being out of place on such a busy day. (Image credit: Future / SARAH KAYE REPRESENTATION LTD (ADRIAN BRISCOE))

Housekeeping perfectionism was a mindset that it took me a while to train myself out of. I used to find it particularly stressful when I had guests coming to my home and I couldn’t 100% remove visual evidence of Christmas morning carnage from my most sociable spaces, such as living rooms and kitchens.

But taking the first two steps in this guide helped corral new clutter with next-to-zero effort in that in-between stage of the holidays, where you have a bunch of new items, and no time to find a permanent home for the plethora of gifts received.

This means cleaning things up quickly, not perfectly, so that your space is reset fast and respectable for any friends and family who are stopping by.

Having extra family-member-specific bags to hold new items is also handy when extra relatives or loved ones arrive and add to the chaos. This will prevent your home from descending into further chaos if extra people arrive.

Rebecca agrees, adding, ‘Perhaps most importantly, these tips are not about perfection or restoring your space to a picture-perfect living room. It’s about restoring flow. Clearing the visual noise quickly allows everyone to stay present and focus on what matters most: Being together, rather than feeling stressed by the mess.'

What to Shop

Once the chaos of Christmas is over, having a number of handy storage items to put decor away sensibly will stop them from breaking between now and next Christmas, as well as make it easier to clean up after Christmas.

Meet the Expert

Next, lean into January decluttering rules to start the new year right.

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