Do you ever feel like you’re stuck in the same relationship pattern? Maybe you always pick unavailable partners. Or perhaps you feel a constant, low-level anxiety that your partner is about to leave. This, however, isn’t bad luck. It is often your past attachment style dictating your present. Our earliest bonds, in fact, form a blueprint for how we connect as adults. Consequently, when that blueprint is shaky, attachment issues in relationships show up in confusing ways. Understanding them is the first step to breaking the cycle.
