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The Guardian - UK
The Guardian - UK
Lifestyle
Sirin Kale

You’re not taking the dog! How pet custody battles turned nasty

Composite of an illustration of a two people walking away from each other, holding leads attached to a photo of a daschund looking sad
‘Shared custody arrangements have the potential to go very wrong.’ Composite: Lalalimola/The Guardian; Getty Images Composite: Lalalimola/The Guardian

All Emma wants is to see her baby. Not even half the time, or at weekends, or in the holidays. The odd walk in the park would do, or a day at the beach. Emma misses her. She thinks about her all the time. She wonders if Luna has forgotten about her and, if she has, whether that’s for the best. The thought of Luna thinking that Emma abandoned her breaks her heart.

The last time she saw Luna was in mid 2021. Emma, who is in her 30s and works in social care in the south-west of England, travelled to where her ex lives, to see her. “She was so happy and excited to see me,” Emma says. “It was lovely. But he wouldn’t let me see her by myself.” They spent an hour together and as they were saying goodbye, Emma told Luna how much she loved her. Afterwards, Emma sat in the car and cried.

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