Anyone who has gone through hardship will know that there can be reminders of it throughout the rest of your life that might cause some amount of disquiet. This can cause some strain with friends and family, but there are limits to how far someone has to actually tip-toe around your unresolved trauma.
A woman wondered if she was wrong for refusing to cut her long hair after a friend told her it brought up “family trauma.” Readers shared their thoughts and gave some suggestions. Bored Panda reached out to OP via Reddit and will update the article when she gets back to us.