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Kids Ain't Cheap
Kids Ain't Cheap
Catherine Reed

Why Some Parents Resent Their Kids—But Can’t Say It Out Loud

It’s the secret many parents carry in silence: moments of resentment toward the very children they love more than anything. These feelings are often tangled in guilt, buried under the weight of expectation, and dismissed with a quick “I’m just tired.” But they’re real, and they matter—because ignoring them doesn’t make them go away. Resentment doesn’t mean you’re a bad parent; it means you’re human, stretched thin in a role that demands more than anyone ever admits. Exploring why some parents feel this way can help shift the narrative from shame to self-awareness, and maybe even offer some peace in the process.

1. The Loss of Personal Identity

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