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The Guardian - UK
The Guardian - UK
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Fatma Aydemir

Why every woman can see herself in the story of a German celebrity couple’s split

Collien Fernandes addresses a protest against online assaults against women on 26 March 2026 in Hamburg, Germany.
Collien Fernandes addresses a protest against online assaults against women on 26 March 2026 in Hamburg, Germany. Photograph: Morris MacMatzen/Getty Images

Some stories that unfold in real life would read like the plot of a bad crime novel if you wrote them down. Too obvious, too contrived, almost lazy in their cruelty. For example, this one: a woman spends years trying to identify the person who has allegedly been violating her online, only to eventually conclude that it was her husband all along.

This is how the case of Germany’s once-favourite celebrity couple Collien Fernandes and Christian Ulmen now presents itself to the public. Fernandes, TV presenter, actor and author, has been a familiar face in mainstream entertainment for more than two decades. Ulmen, an actor, producer and former MTV presenter, is long associated with a certain kind of ironic, self-aware masculinity. The two married in 2011, had a daughter, and cultivated the image of a modern, witty supercouple, working together on series and advertisements, in which they playfully talked about their seemingly average marriage for comedic effect. Until that image fractured.

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