Wedding season is officially upon us, which means your weekend calendar is full, and your closet is suddenly looking very ordinary. Add in some very specific dress codes, a unique choice of venue, and your shopping just got so much harder.
Don’t worry, though — we chatted to Nicole Adolphe, Head of Style at THE ICONIC, to get the lowdown on how to decode every single dress code, master tricky terrain, nail the fit check, and avoid the group chat meltdown.
What are the key dress codes guests should know when dressing for a wedding?
The main dress codes to know are casual, cocktail, formal and black tie. For a casual wedding, think dressed up enough for a fit check, a cute dress or elevated separates rather than jeans and a top. Try a matching set from SNDYS, a dress from AERE or tailored trousers from One of Others.
Cocktail calls for a mini or midi dress in a statement shape or luxe fabric, like this option from MISHA. Think asymmetric necklines, silk, satin, draping, layered mesh or hints of sheer fabric, like this Shona Joy dress. Halter or plunge necklines and lace detailing, like this Ownley dress, also work beautifully.
Semi-formal or formal takes things a step further with longer hemlines and a more polished, glamorous feel. For black tie, opt for a full-length or elevated gown, like this option from Effie Kats. Silk is always a safe bet, as are fabrics with a bit of shine, like this MISHA gown. My tip is to add a tailored blazer to give a classic gown a bit of an edge, then finish with a clutch and statement earrings.
Across every dress code, the golden rule is to read the invitation carefully and take your cues from the couple, venue and time of day. It’s also worth considering how traditional or conservative the wedding might be to gauge whether you need to tone your outfit down or can really dress for the girls.
What should guests consider when dressing for a beach or garden wedding?
For a beach or garden wedding, the main thing to consider is your shoes — style upwards from there. Swap stilettos for barely-there flat sandals, thong kitten heels or a wedge heel, like this pair from Tony Bianco. Opt for effortless spring dresses in sunset colours, like this Baobab dress.
We’re seeing saturated colours everywhere this season, so red, chartreuse or sunset orange are great options if you want to make a statement, while softer shades like butter yellow or this pink from Palm Noosa offer a more feminine take.
Garden weddings give you more room to play with texture and print. Florals and linens are a natural fit, particularly the 3D floral detailing we’re seeing right now, while lace or a tiered midi like this one from CHANCERY adds beautiful movement.
Just keep the terrain in mind. A block heel like this pair from Billini, or a platform, will be much easier to navigate on grass than a fine stiletto.
What works best for more traditional wedding venues, such as a church or classic reception venue?
For a traditional venue, I’d take a conservative but chic approach, particularly for a church ceremony. Think longer hemlines, a more modest neckline, sleeves or a jacket layered over your look for the ceremony. Classic silhouettes are key here, and midi or maxi lengths, like this one from Mossman, always feel appropriate.
Alternatively, opt for a classic gown like this CHANCERY dress and pair it with a blazer like this one from AERE for an extra layer of polish.
We’re seeing an Old Hollywood influence come through in occasionwear too, with scarves and shawls draped over the shoulders adding an elegant layer to classic silhouettes. Save anything particularly sheer or revealing for a less traditional setting, or the reception later in the day.
Are there any common wedding guest dressing mistakes we should avoid?
Wearing white, or anything that could easily be mistaken for it, is still the biggest one to avoid, including ivory and some champagne tones. For black tie or formal invites, I’d usually suggest black or block colours like jewel tones rather than bold floral prints or pastels, which can feel too casual for the occasion. Similarly, cute mini dresses are better saved for cocktail or more relaxed weddings.
Beyond that, the most common mistake is ignoring the dress code or venue. If you’re unsure, I’d always lean more polished and dressed up rather than too casual. Practicality matters too: consider whether you can comfortably walk, sit and dance in your outfit, and whether the fabric and footwear make sense for the setting. You want to look great, but also be able to enjoy the day.
What are some of the key wedding guest trends you’re noticing right now?
We’re seeing a real move towards high-saturation colour, with cobalt blue, emerald green and sunset orange all coming through strongly this season.
Silhouette-wise, slinky satin dresses and off-the-shoulder styles continue to be key, including this style from CHANCERY, while matching sets and tailored jumpsuits remain a chic alternative to a dress.
Texture is also playing a big role, with fringing, lace, soft draping and delicate 3D floral details adding interest without feeling overly formal. With accessories, it’s all about balance: pair a clean, simple dress with statement jewellery, or let a more detailed dress do the talking with something understated, like this longer pendant necklace from Heaven Mayhem.
What’s the one piece people should invest in now as we head into Spring that will last more than one season?
Separates with lace detailing would be my pick. A lace-trim top, for instance, is a great layering piece that can be dressed up for an occasion but styled back with jeans afterwards.
Silk scarves are also having a real fashion moment right now and can be styled in so many different ways. We’ve also seen capes and ponchos making a comeback, which can be another great layering option for cocktail events, like this Atmos&Here style.
Finally, what’s your biggest piece of advice for guests wanting to look stylish while still being appropriate for the occasion?
Dress for the couple, dress code and venue first, then bring your personal style through in the details. That might be a great pair of earrings, an unexpected shoe or how you style your hair, rather than choosing a look that just isn’t you.
And always think about the full day, ceremony, photos and dancing. If you feel comfortable and confident through all three, you’ve nailed it.
Lead Image: Shona Joy, Effie Kats, THE ICONIC
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