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The Guardian - AU
The Guardian - AU
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Joseph Earp

What Jane Austen taught me about male loneliness

Colin Firth as Mr Darcy in the BBC series of Pride and Prejudice
‘It’s a world where you are, like Mr Darcy, rich, successful and desired, but harbour the terrible fear that someone’s going to laugh at you."’ Photograph: BBC/Sportsphoto/Allstar

Last month I travelled to England, a country I had not visited for 13 years, to attend a funeral. When it came time to choose what to read on the long flight, I threw Jane Austen’s Pride and Prejudice into my bag, mostly on a whim. I’d read it and loved it many years before but why it came with me, I can’t entirely say.

The trip was bleak. I sat in galleries by myself. I ate lunch by myself. And I attended the funeral by myself, where the men from my family assembled in awkward clusters, surrounded by each other, but, in an immediately recognisable way, standing alone.

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