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Paul Hanel, Research assistant professor, University of Essex

Want to avoid heated arguments? Try this technique before having a difficult conversation

Conflict is unavoidable but we don't have to argue Master1305/Shutterstock

Listening to people talk about views that clash with your own can be galling. Families all over the world avoid controversial topics. In the UK, for example, mention Brexit and watch everyone in the room tense up.

But if you only speak to people who think the same way you do, you live in an echo chamber. Being around people who think differently from you can increase your self-awareness and acceptance of others and is vital for learning. That’s why we carried out our recent study into whether focusing on your core values can help you engage more openly with others.

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