Voices: My 14-year-old daughter is going too far, too fast with her boyfriend

Dear Vix,

I’m going out of my mind with worry about my daughter. She’s only 14 but has already had a steady boyfriend for a year – and I think they’re having sex. It feels far too soon, far too fast, far too heavy – and I’m terrified: not only about teenage pregnancy, but about whether she is emotionally ready to be making such big life choices.