Voices: I used to be the one breaking up with girlfriends – now, I’m getting dumped

In 500 Days of Summer (2009), Joseph Gordon-Levitt falls for Zooey Deschanel, who does not believe in relationships or boyfriends - (Searchlight Pictures)

Dear Vix,

I think I’m losing my "spark”, and it’s honestly terrifying. I’m in my early thirties, and for the last decade I’ve had a very specific rhythm. I’d meet a girl, we’d start dating, things would be incredible for a couple of months, and then – just as the“where is this going” conversations started – I’d get bored and end it.