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The Independent UK
The Independent UK
Lifestyle
Victoria Richards

Voices: I’m married – but it’s fine to reconnect with an old college crush, right?

Vix

Dear Vix,

I am a married man who loves his wife, but I also desperately want to reconnect with my old college female crush who friend-zoned me many years ago. My question is: do I reconnect, knowing that I have feelings for her?

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