Voices: I’m having friends over for dinner – and I worry they’re going to judge me

Dear Vix,

I’m having a dinner party with some friends – friends I’ve known for a really long time – but I’ve got myself in a state worrying about it. I’m stressing about the menu and whether the food will be “good” enough for them; I’m nervous about showing off my tiny flat – which is cute and cozy, but not exactly a palace – and I’m anxious that I won’t be a good host.