The message read: “I found you on a hairy pits site.” I sighed, both at the informality and the nature of this message from someone I didn’t know.
Sadly, it was not uncommon. Since I stopped shaving my body hair in 2020 – and quite happily celebrated that fact – I have received increasingly sexualised comments on Instagram. But something about this message felt different, so I duly replied and asked which site.