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The Independent UK
The Independent UK
Lifestyle
Victoria Richards

Voices: I am a chronic people-pleaser – and I’m starting to drown

Dear Vix,

I’ve always been the person people turn to – whether it’s family, friends, or even co-workers. I love being there for others, but lately, I feel drained. I say yes when I really don’t want to, I take on more than I can handle and I feel guilty when I try to set boundaries. The worst part? When I do stand up for myself, I second-guess if I’m being selfish.

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