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The Independent UK
The Independent UK
Lifestyle
Lucy Rout

Voices: Fatigued by apps, I flew almost 10,000 miles for a date – here’s what happened

After three years of being single, I felt like I had exhausted all my options. I fell into the cycle of downloading dating apps, going on a date, feeling disappointed, deleting the apps, and vowing to focus on myself for a while or take up a new hobby – only to repeat the whole process a few weeks later.

I even tried dating events, where you pay £20 to be rammed into a room full of single people with no common interests – and I found the experience to be just as intimidating and fruitless as approaching a man in a bar in real life.

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