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The Guardian - US
The Guardian - US
Politics
Matthew Cantor

Virtual living rooms, adult ‘after-school clubs’ and AI lovers: my search for a fix to modern loneliness

illustration of person at table with ghostly outlines of a person pouring a drink for another person and two outlined people sitting on a red couch
Modern loneliness: ‘It’s hard to arrange to be in the same room as someone else, whereas it’s easy to scroll through social media,’ said Sheila Liming. Illustration: Sunny Wu/The Guardian

The solar eclipse was about to begin, and I’d forgotten to get dark glasses. The local libraries in Los Angeles were all out of them. Rumors that 7-Eleven might have them turned out to be false. But outside the convenience store, gazing upward, was a group of strangers sharing a single pair. As they passed it from person to person, I got up my courage and asked to join in, catching the strange crescent in the nick of time.

On the way home, I chatted with others gazing upward. My neighbors and I looked into alternative viewing methods involving holes poked in paper. I returned to my apartment to texts from friends who used colanders to view the sun; Instagram was full of acquaintances claiming the path of totality had changed their lives. In work chats, people described gatherings with strangers on New York rooftops.

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