Vanessa Feltz's ex-partner Ben Ofoedu asked the presenter to 'relax' during arguments only a month before they split.
The 60-year-old and her fiancé Ben, 50, were together since 2005, making appearances together on-screen and in magazines, but shocked fans when they split recently.
A teary Vanessa even appeared on This Morning for the first time after the split on Wednesday and admitted she felt 'humiliated' by it.