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The Guardian - UK
The Guardian - UK
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As told to Alfie Packham

Ukraine-Russia crisis: ‘I left my husband behind at the border. My heart is broken’

Alisa’s family and dog huddle together on the floor after arriving in Poland from Ukraine.
Alisa’s family and dog huddle together on the floor after arriving in Poland from Ukraine. Photograph: Alisa/Guardian Community

We’ve lost a lot of things. We lost my father. I left my husband behind at the border. My heart is broken because I’ve never been without him. He’s a part of me, the biggest part of me, and now he’s not with me. There are no men with us.

On 23 February, I lost my dad unexpectedly, aged 59. The next day the war began. While many people were leaving Kyiv, my husband and I were trying to sort out funeral documents from all over the city in order to bury Dad. We went from morgue to funeral agency to prosecutor’s office to registry office to morgue to funeral agency.

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