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Catherine A. Sanderson, Poler Family Professor and Chair of Psychology, Amherst College

To get rid of hazing, clarify what people really think is acceptable behavior and redefine what it means to be loyal

Students often have the wrong idea about what their peers think is acceptable. Anastasiia Korotkova/iStock via Getty Images

My husband and I spent a late August day several years ago settling in our oldest child, Andrew, for the start of his first year at college. We went to Walmart to buy a mini fridge and rug. We hung posters above his bed. We attended the obligatory goodbye family lunch before heading to our car to return to a slightly quieter house.

Two weeks later, Andrew called me, his voice breaking. A student in his dorm had just died as a result of head trauma after a fall the young man took while extremely drunk. Media coverage in the months following indicated that instead of seeking help immediately after the fall, the young man’s friends waited nearly 20 hours to call 911. At that point, it was too late for potentially lifesaving medical treatment.

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