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The Guardian - UK
The Guardian - UK
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Emma Beddington

Tired of being a woman in 2025? Why not become a nun …

Teresa of Avila (1515-82), religious reformer of the Carmelite Order in an engraving by Capuz.
Let’s hear it for the sisters … Teresa of Avila (1515-82), religious reformer of the Carmelite Order in an engraving by Capuz. Illustration: UniversalImagesGroup/Universal Images Group/Getty Images

Nuns are everywhere – we’ve had Isabella Rossellini’s Sister Agnes stealing the show in Conclave and nuns with main character energy in The Phoenician Scheme, And Just Like That and Nine Perfect Strangers. On #nuntok (yes, a thing), real sisters demystify and give surprisingly irreverent glimpses into their lives. There was the Austrian trio jailbreaking from a care home to return to their beloved convent, and at the other end of the demographic scale, a rise in younger women following, or at least considering, cloistered vocations.

Nun memes have become a jokey shorthand for real dissatisfaction with life as a woman in 2025 – unsolicited dick pics, workplace discrimination and the endless, soul-sapping scroll. They don’t, mostly, express a yearning for strict religiosity or voluntary celibacy, but for community, purpose and a retreat from chaos. It’s the same impulse that attracts women to single-sex communities or makes them pine, like Stella in Bernard MacLaverty’s brilliant Midwinter Break, for béguinages (the lay communities of single women that flourished in the Low Countries in the middle ages). We all just want peace.

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