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The Guardian - UK
The Guardian - UK
Lifestyle
As told to Olivia Ladanyi

This is how we do it: ‘Over 30 years, our spark has dimmed in difficult times, but we’ve always got it back’

Illustration of woman in slip dress with 1 strap down emitting spark, and a tiny naked man climbing up her arm

Gavin, 48

Because I haven’t slept with anybody else for decades, my sexual skills don’t feel transferable; they are specific to Lisa

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