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The Guardian - UK
The Guardian - UK
Lifestyle
As told to Olivia Ladanyi

This is how we do it: ‘I worried about his kinks, but I’m learning to relax and be playful’

An illustration of a naked woman holding a tiny man whose hair is like a cat-o’-nine-tails

Marty, 47

The sex is gentle and affectionate … what I have with Viv is like nothing I’d experienced before

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