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The Guardian - UK
The Guardian - UK
Lifestyle
As told to Olivia Ladanyi

This is how we do it: ‘Having sex with other people brought us closer, but also exposed insecurities’

Todd Amber
Illustration of legs and feet and a figure in the middle shouting and reaching out

Todd, 49

The first time we had sex with a couple, I didn’t anticipate how destabilising it would feel

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