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The Guardian - UK
The Guardian - UK
Technology
Elle Hunt

‘They filmed me without my consent’: the ugly side of #kindness videos

When a man suddenly gives you flowers … that’s probably TikTok.
When a man suddenly gives you flowers … that’s probably TikTok. Photograph: Dmitrii Melnikov/Alamy

Maree only wanted to buy some shoes. A pair that she liked the look of had gone on sale, so she made a trip into the city to try them on. It was late in the day in June, mid-winter in Melbourne, and the shopping centre was quiet. After making her purchase, Maree stopped for a coffee. “And that’s when it happened,” she says.

A young man approached her holding a posy of flowers. He asked Maree to hold them for him as he put on his jacket. “I wish I’d trusted my instincts and said no,” she says. “It was all so quick.” Maree took the flowers – then the man walked away, wishing her “a lovely day”. She held them out after him, bemused.

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