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The Guardian - UK
The Guardian - UK
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Moya Lothian-McLean

I am happier than ever to be single, so why are love and romance all I can think about?

A woman looks pensive as she speaks to a man at a dinner party
‘I want my singlehood to become as boring to my own mind as it presumably is to everyone else. Not some overwrought source of “empowerment” nor a Bridget Jones-esque failure.’ Photograph: 10’000 Hours/Getty Images

“Come to this party,” I texted a friend last week. “There will be men there.”

This rallying cry – one that carries the promise of romantic intrigue – is one I find myself invoking frequently and unthinkingly nowadays. Going to the pub? Might be men there. Perhaps I should put on a better slobby jumper for the two-minute trek to the shop, in case there are men there. Sitting in a GP’s waiting room – men? There? For me?

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