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The Guardian - UK
The Guardian - UK
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Emma Beddington

The world needs more compliments. Just try not to be weird about it

Two women walking down the street together, smiling
Good vibes … tiny acts of niceness make everyone feel better. Photograph: Posed by model; Ahmani Vidal/Getty Images

I hope you don’t mind me saying that you are looking very nice today. Ugh, no, sorry, start again.

I have been thinking a lot about compliments – why, how, good and bad ones – because of Barbara from Stroud, whose vox pop went viral when she was asked how to make someone’s day better. “If I see someone and I like their shoes, dress, hat, I say so,” she said. That this quite ordinary comment, albeit from a clearly delightful woman, got millions of views and compliments in return (including from former England goalie Mary Earps) suggests an understandable longing for nano acts of niceness.

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