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The Guardian - UK
The Guardian - UK
Lifestyle
Anna Moore

The woman who made her family disappear: how Karen Palmer escaped her abusive husband

Karen Palmer after she, Vinnie and her daughters arrived in Boulder, in late 1989.
‘I felt fear and exhilaration … driving into the unknown’ … Karen Palmer, author of She’s Under Here, in 1989. Photograph: Courtesy of Karen Palmer

In the summer of 1989, Karen Palmer bought a used car for cash, filled it with belongings – some clothes, toys, one pot, one pan and a shoebox of photos – and “disappeared” with her new husband and two young daughters. She didn’t tell her mother, her friends or her neighbours where she was going. She gave no notice to her employers and landlord, leaving items out on her apartment balcony as a sign she still lived there.

“I have such a clear memory of the day we left Los Angeles,” says Palmer. “It was this weird combination of fear and exhilaration, heart pounding, driving into the unknown.” Palmer was fleeing her ex-husband, Gil, the man she feared, and the father of her two daughters, Erin and Amy, then seven and three.

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