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The Guardian - AU
The Guardian - AU
Politics
Walter Marsh

‘The real thing almost didn’t turn me on enough’: how is online porn shaping the sex lives of young men?

A recent study released by Australia’s eSafety Commissioner found that 13 was the average age for  young people to be first exposed to porn.
A recent study released by Australia’s eSafety Commissioner found 13 was the average age young people were first exposed to porn. Photograph: Westend61/Getty Images

Twenty-two-year-old Tom* was in the fourth grade when he first googled “sex” on his family computer. It took him to one of the big free porn sites that account for the bulk of adult content consumed online – and a decent chunk of all internet traffic.

“It was very visceral, kind of shocking,” Tom tells Guardian Australia. As a young boy with a broadband connection, he had already been exposed to a “nauseating” variety of violent and confronting material, but this discovery brought a kind of “hyper-excitement”. “I just didn’t quite know how to make sense of it,” he recalls.

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