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The Guardian - UK
The Guardian - UK
Lifestyle
Joe Pinner

The one change that worked: I stopped planning holidays – and found the joy in travel

Joe Pinner sat at a table outside a bar with a sangria
‘It’s about living in the present and making good memories’ … Joe Pinner ditched an itinerary for his Barcelona trip. Photograph: Courtesy of Joe Pinner

I have always been indecisive and scared of wasting money. When it came to travel, this meant I was forever desperate for someone to tell me where to go, what to see and what to eat. Before any holiday or day out, I’d already scoured the area on Google Earth, watched endless videos on social media, and read scores of online reviews. I knew exactly where I was going before I’d even left my house.

My Google Maps would be filled with saved spots and I would build a plan to cram them all into a few days’ holiday. I was reluctant to go anywhere without a well-recommended “hidden gem” in my back pocket. Sometimes, one of those places I’d scouted out weeks in advance would truly be sensational. Bistrot Victoires in Paris, for instance, really did earn its spot on a top 10 list (the duck confit was incredible), and I was glad to have done the research to find a good, affordable place to eat in a notoriously expensive city. But more often than not, reality fell far short of what was promised. The images of colourful, likely Photoshopped views, unspoilt historical landmarks and huge, gourmet, mouthwatering sandwiches I’d come across online would turn out to be utterly underwhelming in real life.

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